Remembering back to the first thing we all discussed in class, the question, ‘Who am I?’ brought up a great handful of responses. Some of the responses dealt with the physical, such as habits, appearance, daily activities, careers, ethnicity, and the body. Other responses dealt with the internal, such as religious beliefs, morals, emotions and feelings, inner struggles, and wants and needs. Even the most obvious one, one’s name, was mentioned near the end. All were great points and could directly answer the question of who someone was. However, I feel that the answer that could most accurately respond to a question like that is not something the person being asked could reply, but instead what others could answer for him/her. I say this because even when we were asked in class and given over an hour to answer that question, it took a lot of brainstorming to fill the board with ideas. We had to take time and think about a response that would do justice to ourselves and our being as humans. What are we? It really is a tough question for an individual to be asked and subsequently answer, and that is why it is best to leave that to others to respond. If one of our friends was asked who we were, they would make no hesitation in blurting off answers left and right, and it might even take minutes for that person to run out of ideas of who we were individually. If an acquaintance or co-worker was asked the same question, they could come of with a few responses of their own fairly quickly. Even someone who doesn’t know you personally, but knows your name and appearance, could answer that fairly easily. They could say something along the lines of, “oh yeah, that’s the babe that sits next to me in class, she’s a hottie,’ or ‘i think that’s the smelly guy that wears that bass fishing hat everywhere.’ Even short answers such as those still respond to the question of who someone else is. To put simply, it is how others view us that gives us our individual definition.
People can continue to ‘be’ even after they are dead. That is a bold statement, but I have a reasoning for saying so. Take for instance Babe Ruth. Babe Ruth was one of the greatest baseball players to ever live. He held the record for most home runs in a season for over 30 years, and constantly played while intoxicated off of beer. How do I know this? I know this because this is his legacy that he left behind for us to remember. He is still mentioned daily among the all-time greats of baseball. Fathers tell their kids that they can be like him if they try and practice hard. This man has been dead for over half of a century, but he can still be described. The same goes for ‘Honest’ Abraham Lincoln, or the ‘peaceful’ Mahatma Ghandi. We remember them by what their actions or beliefs left for others to talk about for ages.
With all of this though, there are still other things to be mentioned. People can be two opposites at the same time. Americans view Osama Bin Laden as the incarnation of evil, whereas his Al-Qeadian followers view him as a leader. Two polar opposites, in this instance, are used to describe the same person. Any individual can be someone’s horrible boss, or their spouse’s light of the world. It really can all lead to someone’s perception of another. Sometimes there really can be no definitive answer to who someone is.
To cap it all off, there could be a time when we are everything, and a time when we are nothing. Surely, movie fans alike will remember Robert Deniro or Meryl Streep for years to come, but in a few millenniums time, nobody will know who that is. Even we will be forgotten soon. Maybe one of us will become largely famous and have the whole world’s attention, but most of us won’t. We might be the greatest father, mother, brother, sister, or grandparent to somebody, but a few generations down the road, our own bloodline won’t know who we are. Ironically enough, if humans don’t find a way to live outside earth in the next billions of years, we will become extinct as the sun will envelop the earth and melt it. At that time, humanity as a whole won’t be anything, not even a memory.
Therefore, I feel it is the culmination of all of those things mentioned in class and more, that respond to the question of who we are. It’s not how we can describe ourselves, but how others see us, how they view us, and our legacy we leave behind for others to remember that ultimately defines us as a being.